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Why I dislike most porn -4: BDSM

I have seen a lot of it – Some is quite good – See here my more than ten thousand favourite videos!
I have seen also many videos without acting or directors, why are they always better than pro-porn?

I am amazed as pleased by extreme success of the first episode with over fifteen thousands readers!
I especially like the serious and lengthy feedback in some of the comments which invoke my interest

I ended the third installment of this series of serious essays with my offer of three next subjects
I got one vote from one of my dozen muses in a private message to tell more about pleasure spanking

I guess that means she wins my plebicit among my dear readers by only one vote to zero: so You lost
I will tell about my first muse who taught me everything I know in private messages and her stories

I address the confusion in porn about spanking for punishment, a former Anglosaksian educational habit

I summarise the standard scenario of a spanking video from the UK or US here for uninformed readers:
I can skip first half, often two-thirds: a teacher lectures a teen about breaking the school rules

I know from the start how good or bad (mostly the latter) it will be: raised voice and lots of bla-bla
I know the dozen reasons for girls to be spanked: being late, caught smoking masturbating or whatever

It is all against (boarding) school regulations, so she will receive a severe spanking at bare bottom
It is first at her knickers as the English call it, but eventually they come off – bare bums get red

I know that even if a spanking happens for first time in real – which can be very humiliating indeed
I know that even in those cases the teen (or woman) will get aroused and wet, not only warm and red!

It was my first muse who explained me all that in detail from her own experience of a dozen years
I can write a whole series of essays – I did already many stories – about my lessons from Jennifer

I might do so when time is due, if I will get enough requests from curious readers for our story
It implies another sexy series, as there is too much to share, without disclosing private secrets

I state the truth here: spanking is a terrible turn on, even if it is very humiliating

I know as well you probably that some severe spanking can seriously hurt “It’s meant to hurt”
I know that standard lines from (school) spanking videos by heart – basicly they are all the same

I find them boring skip the first half if I like the looks of the teen ‘over the knees’ of a principal
I find home scenarios more sexy where a husband/father/lady administers spanking mixed with caresses!

It usually has two or three camera positions: her burning bottom from the side, her face and her slit
I know the art of spanking demands to reassure the spankee by caresses of her bums every now and then

I know why the spanker also slightly caresses along the split between her ass cheeks – down her slit
I know why: she spanker wants to check the state of her arousal and raise it a bit reaching her clit

I rarely get a clear view of a sexy snatch get wet, the focus is on her ass getting red burning bums
I know why: it is the hypocrisy caused by confusion of punishment – while providing pretty pleasures!

I summarise my first lessons from my first ever female friend here to a complete spanking newby

In the old days of my account here I accessed internet from a very old desktop, which was very slow
In a few days I noticed I could basicly only read stories and write messages without waiting too long

I wrote private messages mainly to the two lady authors I liked best – and both wrote me back a lot
I still see the name of the other one in the top of the writers list – still writing a few every day

I might write a whole (long) series about our exchanges, confusions: how she fooled me with her offers
I am not too fond of it – a complicated story to tell and her stories are always the same – so boring!

I can’t keep track of how often she lost her virginity very young to her (grand)dad uncles and others
I rather tell you here how my first friend seduced me subtly into becoming a writer of public stories

I wrote her in private my first probes to seduce her, get her wet by my spanking stories in messages
I voted thumbs up enthousiastically for her two stories about a certain Mr.

Petersen and young Jenny

I was still a newby indeed and completely naive – she needed to explain me in private about Petersen
I still remember that character very well: owner of an adult bookshop in England with spanking mags!

I am a muse for my first female friend: the elder gentleman Mr. Peterson is me! – I still blush

I learned from her private messages that she modelled that chap Petersen to the image she had of me
Indeed my apartment is a bit similar: shelves with books everywhere, many with erotica and sexuology

I have – like good old Peterson – a private collection of more explicit erotica in a special backroom
I have there the old printed porn and even some spanking magazines and vintage books about the subject

I started to pay back my debt for this tribute and her lessons in private about the art of spanking
I wrote my first series for her and then lesbian lover/colleague: ‘Jenny and Tanya in old Amsterdam’

I learned from Jennifer spanking is foreplay for the finishing blow, a furious fuck to make her come
I wrote perhaps dozens of series for Jennifer over the following four years, a few had a dozen issues

I consider to call this series to an end and switch to a positive title: ‘Why I like good porn’

I know that complaining and critising is for the unsatisfied – the title makes even me feel unhappy!
I know that ‘thankyou’ is due to my muse Kris for voting for this theme to which I will return happily

I invite my dear readers to vote for this versed story and pray they leave a comment: food for writers
I invited comments at each installment, but only first part got some interesting lengthy observations

I mention this as one of the many reasons I consider to call this series to an end, most dislike them
I mention first muse Jennifer once more – she shall start to write again! – as her excuse is so empty

I laugh at Jennifer – no lesbian any longer but married and she quit her job as news editor at CTV
I laugh at her weak excuse having no time since she stopped to work: she lost her set of priorities

I favour honesty even, and especially, at this site where almost everyone is a great pretender
I favour own photos to those borrowed avatars, although I undertand reasons for keeping some privacy

I summarise my conclusions about spanking for pleasure on the way to get a gorguous great orgasm

I explained that spanking for punishment is plain bullshit – typically porn: completely unlike reality
I think the only proper punishment for an afficionado spankee is to spank her and forbid her to come!

I believe spanking is foreplay for a great orgasm – either from fucking or masturbation and best both
I believe everyone should try it at least once with their most trusted delicate lover, trust is a must

I close with Jenny as example: long a lesbian – longing in secret still for her ‘Mr.

Goodbar’
I know she fantasized being spanked real hard in public, in practise she only let a few women do it.


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